Have you asked, why there are many sex programs on our televisions, radios and even social media platforms?
And to my surprise most of these programs are done last in the evening in order to engage only the adults especially the married ones.
Have you really asked yourself why such programs even for married ones? What then will prevent a husband from having sex with his wife? What then will also prevent a wife from demanding sex from her husband? These are questions asked by unmarried individuals.
When you are not married, you may think what marriage can only offer you is regular sex. No doubt about that. You can go the extra mile on sex with your spouse and there is no hindrance to that. Only your decisions matter.
Sexual intercourse is mostly attributed to married couples. But the question is, why many couples are struggling to have it? I know there are some factors. To some because of health issues. To others because of familiarity and just laziness.
I want you to come to the knowing with this article that, what is called SEXUAL IMMORALITY is also existing among couples.
Most at times, we normally associate sexual immorality to those who are not married. But it will surprise you, those unmarried are even moral when it comes to sex affairs yet it is not biblical for them to engage in such act.
What then is Sexual Immorality? That’s, not living sexual life as expected of you as a married person. In other words, living contrarily from the way and manner sex should be done as a married person.
Truth to be told, there is a way to sex. That’s why the power of your marriage is on sex aside prayers and proper communication. And this is where if care is not taken the devil stands to affect the marriage because of how this sex is being done.
First, know that, the way to sexual intercourse is romance. And this romance doesn’t start its full capacity in the bedroom. Romance is a lifestyle that must happened day in and out as married ones. The way you talk to each other, the way you accept your faults and embrace yourself together, how transparent you are to yourself and how naughty you people are, are what is called Romance.
Cuddling, kissing, massaging, sucking, licking and the other acts that happens at the hall of your room or on your bed is just 5% constituent of sex. There is the need for you to know that there is Pre-Sex, Sex & Post-Sex. This will help you to be sexually moral.
Some men think sexing the wife for about hours is the deal. Surprisingly, you can sex for hours yet there will be no satisfaction from you and your wife when you don’t know how to deal with what she needs from you in sex.
To some also, because they know their wives are with them forever, they just sex them hurriedly with selfish mindset.
I believe now per few examples, you have come to realise the topic; SEXUAL IMMORALITY.
When sex becomes immoral by married couples, its affect the marriage. I keep telling couples that, “In marriage, sex answers everything.” The nagging, the anger, the disrespect and other acts that drain the marriage is because sex in marriage are not properly done. And this can cause the couples especially the husband to see the wife as just sex toy that is by only checking up or come to her when he feels for sex.
This attitude has immediate effect on the children in the family as well. It will surprise you to know that, you sometimes shout at your children unnecessarily because you were unable to reached your orgasm. Have you realised that you at times mentioned their fathers name to insult or correct them when they are behaving because orgasm was not reached?
Healthy family is where sex is appreciated and morally governed. Your family needs that happiness of sex to stay. It is an intimacy between you and your spouse alright yet they need that often in order to see a smiling face and a happy home.
Written by Tonnie Baffoe (Ekroful District, Agona Swedru Area)
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